July 31, 2009

Nolan: Stories in the Sand

Last year, Braelyn participated in a photography/writing project with the Ridgecrest Library.  For several weeks, she went with a group of would-be photographers and writers to find another side of Ridgecrest they’d never seen and share it with the rest of us.  This year, Nolan joined the second group of young people to venture out into our city in search of an alternate look.

Today we went to see the display of their projects.  I thought I’d share Nolan’s.

These were this year’s participants.  Nolan’s “blurb” that someone wrote about him reads: Nolan is a sweet, honest, funny type of guy.  He is very attentive to his work and pays close attention to a lot of things going around.  He’s one of those guys who listens to you when you have problems or when you’re just plain bored and lazy.  He is truly an AMAZING friend and it’s great to BE his friend.  So… THANK YOU NOLAN!!!!  (emphasis theirs.  Snort.)

One of the girls is from the homeschool group here in town (bottom left) and Nolan played against her in volleyball this year too.  If I remember right, his team won.  Go Nolan!  (hee hee)

This was Nolan’s board.  He was very fascinated by the architectural aspects of Ridgecrest.  I think the firstp icture is probably my favorite, but the stairs are also very amazing.

He learned a lot about the Quonset huts around town, how they were used, and how they’ve been repurposed for use today.

The second picture is of the stairs of the USO Building which, you’ll see later, Braelyn also used on her board last year but from a different angle, and designed to make a different point.

Many of our oldest buildings and homes are cinderblock as shown in the third picture (top right.  In this picture you see two windows in a cinderblock building which Nolan points out we no longer build with anymore.

The last picture captivated him.  He was fascinated with the small rock sitting on top of the fence  that wouldn’t quite fill the hole in it.  I found the hole in the fence and the bottom hole in the old door to be an interesting similarity and contrast.

Doesn’t he look proud of his hard work.  Snort.   You can barelysee the board next to it, but it is Braelyn’s.

I had such a hard time getting this picture.  An elderly gentleman spent five minutes or more reading every word Nolan wrote.  It was kind of comical.  I mean, on the one hand, I was so aggrivated; on the other, I was flattered for Nolan.  His essay was:

RIDGECREST THROUGH THE YEARS

Ridgecrest is a unique town with widely varied architecture.  From cinder block buildings and homes to repurposed Quonset huts left over from World War II, to more modern steel and glass buildings like the Civic Center, our town has progressed from utilitarian structures to sleek designs that combine function with a more aesthetically appealing façade.  Originally, buildings began as simple places to serve a specific function, but over time people added on to them and redesigned them to serve other needs.   Like the Quonset huts that now serve as automobile repair centers, even small houses in Ridgecrest are now redesigned as stores.  There is even one house that now serves as tearoom.


The world changes quickly around us, but in every city there is usually a discernible blend between the old and the new.  Ridgecrest is no exception.  Newcomers drive down China Lake Boulevard and see our old hospital being converted and changed into a modernized facility, while across the street, new buildings dot the once empty landscape.  As you turn onto Ridgecrest Boulevard, suddenly, the new buildings slowly give way to older ones.  You can almost see the styles change yard by yard.

Some of the buildings are newly refurbished, and yet others seem to crumble a little more every time you drive past them.  In the middle of one row of businesses, several buildings were razed and a new building built as though proof that the new will always find its way among the old.

Yes, I helped him take his words and polish them.  He was very dissatisfied with how it was phrased until I took  words like “practical” and redefined them as “utilitarian.”    He wasn’t familiar with the concept of a facade, but he is now and now his essay doesn’t say “fake front.”  Hee hee.

I finally managed to get a broad shot of both of their boards.  Braelyn’s was titled “Ridgecrest Through My Lens” and focused on four words.  Mystery, transformation, serendipity, and palimpsest.   We all learned a new word.  I’d never heard or seen the word palimpsest before this thing.

Palimpsest: something having usually diverse aspects or layers apparent beneath the surface.

Thought you oughtta know.

These are pictures that didn’t make the final cut, but they wanted to share some with the public.  I wanted the bottom right to make Nolan’s final cut… it was one of the first he took I think (I think he took it!), but it really doesn’t fit the rest of the pictures so I think he was wise to leave it out.

Voila.  The last pictures.  That red door really grabs me.  It’s

such a powerful little picture.  I don’t know who took it, but I liked it.

I also think the heart in the gate was kind of symbolic.  I love that glimpse into the heart of someone’s life so to speak.

I also think the greenery growing up through the storm grate.  In Ridgecrest, even the possibility of something so green growing in the hottest months of our year, without good soil or sufficient water… is almost a miracle.

I sound like a boasting and proud mama.  Maybe that’s cause I am.  :)

March 21, 2009

In Memory of Dad Havig~

Mom and Dad Havig at their 50th Wedding Anniversary 0ctober, 2008

Mom and Dad Havig at their 50th Wedding Anniversary 0ctober, 2008

I remember the day I met you. Challice was only a few weeks old and I still carried her around in her carseat all slumped sideways like she loved.  It was at a church soft ball game.  I don’t remember if I played… I don’t even remember if I got to talk to you and mom that day but I do remember that you carried her to my car for me.  This was long before I totalled that car just a few doors down from where your son and I would live about six months later.  You smiled, talked, and joked about ice cream.

The next time I saw you was that Christmas.  You and mom picked us up at the airport and if I remember right, you picked up Challice immediately.  I cannot tell you how much that meant to me.  Any hint of concern that we might not be accepted was eradicated completely.  You took us for ice cream, to Zeno’s for pizza, and watched Challice with Mom time after time so Kevin could show me around the town.  As a matter of fact, the night of that awful car accident you had her.  I’d felt so terrible all day that we’d left her with you- again.  I remember being so thankful later.

I remember so little about that accident.  The cold, the pain, the confusion still hover in my memory but it’s all very fuzzy.  What I do remember is lying on the couch in the living room, exactly where your couch sits today, and hearing Kevin crying in concern for me, the car, and what it all meant and there was nothing I could do.  The simple act of sitting up caused so much pressure and pain on my jaw.  But then you came in.  I don’t know if you ever remembered that moment again but I’ll never forget it.  You came over,  hunkered down on your heels,  and asked how I was feeling.  I couldn’t move my jaw to talk and though I’d become an expert at speaking without moving my teeth in the coming weeks, then I could just attempt to smile.  Then you said the words that made it all “better”.  You glanced through the little window in the wall by the kitchen and said, “That man in there sure loves you.”

Do you have any idea how often I think of that day?  It is one of my most treasured memories of both you and of my life.

You and mom visited.  I remember playing Skip-bo, Hearts, and Spades and you always played Hi-Ho-Cherry-O with the kids.  You took them for ice cream (doesn’t this seem to be a recurring theme?) and to the park.  You played basketball in the back yard with the children.  You’d pick up the baby of the year and call her (well, it was usually a “her”)  “Smiley”.  I do believe you called all of our children “Smiley” at one point or another.

You also were so protective of mom.  When she had her heart problems, you made sure she had her naps and didn’t over do it.  I remember distinctly you commenting on Mom’s pretty hair.

When I think of you, I think of sitting on the steps watching the people go by, ice cream, laughter, deep love of the Lord and His church, and that impish twinkle in your eye that I see everytime I look at our son Nolan.  I am so thankful that our son looks just like you.  He likes puzzles like you do… and ice cream.

My husband loves you.  He’ll miss you.  Our children love you and they will also miss you- even little Lorna who never got to see you talks about grandpa Havig.  I love you and yes, I will miss you.  I’ll miss ice cream and taco pizza at Zenos.  I’ll miss card games, and long rides through December nights looking at Christmas lights.  Don’t forget to point out which one won the grand prize!  But most of all, I’ll miss the man who raised the best man in the world and willingly shared him with me.

We’ll meet again.  Part of me can’t wait.  Until then, find a good ice cream shop in heaven and save me a seat.  We’ll sit out there and watch the people walk by, eat our cones, and you can tell me if you think the grass is too s.h.o.r.t.

I love you.

September 6, 2008

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August 21, 2008

Life with Lorna~

It’s never dull.  While all of my children have been quite adorable and made absolutely side splitting comments on a semi-regular basis, Lorna has managed to do it on a semi-hourly basis. 

 

Example du jour.

 

I take a showe this morning.  I open the shower curtain and jump when I hear

“You’re out of the shower.  You’re wet.”

 

Whew.  It’s coming from the other side of the door.

“Yep.  I’m wet.

 

The voice volleys back another stunningly brilliant observation.

“You are drying off.”

 

I glance at the towel that is now holding most of the water that covered me moments ago.

“Sure am.”

 

The small voice returns.

“You are spraying stuff on you.”

 

I stare at the can of deoderant and shake my head.  Such talent for stating the obvious.

“That I am.”

 

Undaunted, the voice speaks again.

“You are putting on your unders.  I hear you.”

 

Just how loud is it when one puts on ones unders?  What distinct movements (I dont’ grunt I assure you) make sufficient noise to give away such state secrets?

“If you say so.”

 

“I do.”

 

I felt a little like Dory.  “Are you my conscience?”  No, I didn’t ask.  I was afraid of the answer.

July 21, 2008

Happy Birthday to ME!

For my birthday this year, God gave me rain.  I loved it.  We’ve got quite a mess going on here but nothing too major.  I’ll update later with the picture of a pick up towing a stalled police car.  Snort.

 

This is 1 block north of our house.  That’s one of our Mormon churches.  We jokingly called this picture, “Flood1.jpg”  SNORT  little did we know…

 

 

After that, Challice and David stopped by and dropped off a couple of the kids from church (they save us taking both cars etc) and she said it was bad on Balsam… so Kevin went and took a picture… this is the store that my friend sells her stuff in.  Those big glass windows were destroyed by a drunk driver and his car.  Well… now the water is inside the building.  The girls went down there and it was over Jenna’s knees when she stood next to the curb. They were sweeping water out of that building. How sad! They just got all that work done and now this.

 

 

That is about four inches OVER the sidewalk

Lorna insisted on a towel.  Whatever.

 

Ok, see where the water is coming up onto the sidewalk?  That’s because it is already over the entire corner.

See…


OY!

Water dancing on the pool… pretty ain’t?

 


Ok, see how that looks like a skimmy puddle over the back yard?  Well first, that back yard is 6″ lower than the rest of our back yard AND has 3-4 foot deep HOLES It’s almost even with the rest of the yard.

 

The neighbor’s yard is pretty bad.  We’re praying for their house!

July 13, 2008

Flash Flood

*as in, it’s here and gone in a flash but what a fun time while it lasts!*

 

 

Look mom, RAIN!

 

 

No, REALLY!

 

 

Mom?  WHAT IS GOING ON!  What is this stuff???  Where’s the sprinkler?  That’s one BIG SPRINKLER!

 

 

The hooded dude in black that looks like a hip dementor is Nolan. 

 

 

I love Andra’s expression.  This is what my kids think of rain!

 

 

Wait!  Dont’ leave!  It’ll stop!

 

 

Ethan is not sure… he’s like Durante in Two Girls and a Sailor… “I’m goin’… I’m stayin’…

 

 

Comin’ down hard!  It was literally Dropping in SHEETS.

 

 

So of course Kevin went out and did his Singing in the Rain bit…

 

While it was raining, our humidity level got up to 32%

 

Now that it’s over, we’re up to 52%

 

Wonder how long THAT will last!

 

 

Howling…. just got this warning from Weather.com

 

THIS IS A DANGEROUS STORM. IF YOU ARE IN ITS PATH…PREPARE IMMEDIATELY FOR DAMAGING WINDS…DESTRUCTIVE HAIL… AND DEADLY CLOUD TO GROUND LIGHTNING. PEOPLE OUTSIDE SHOULD MOVE TO A SHELTER… PREFERABLY INSIDE A STRONG BUILDING BUT AWAY FROM WINDOWS.

 

Ummmmmmm and we’re out singin’ and dancin’ IN THE RAIN!

June 20, 2008

June 19, 2008 POD

 

June 18, 2008

June 18, 2008 POD

 

 

Lorna’s Artwork today.  What does it look like to you?

June 17, 2008

June 17, 2008 POD

 

June 16, 2008

June 16, 2008 POD